On Birds and Thoughts

afterglow-avian-backlit-556663Sometimes, being alone with my thoughts is pure heaven. I string out complicated story lines in my head, recalling weird names or characters so that I can…well, invent weird and interesting characters. I laugh out loud at crazy shenanigans I imagine but I can also get myself all worked up (which is code in the Hall House for crying) over a sad scene that plays out in my mind. Hours go by with just my constructive thoughts and it’s a fine thing.

But other times, being alone with my thoughts is hellish. I obsess over an imagined or real slight, building up a resentment. Or I let worry build into a whole giant thing over what may or may not even happen! Those negative thoughts play in a loop and I literally make myself miserable, possibly to the point of getting myself “all worked up.” And here’s the frustrating thing: I probably indulge in the unhealthy thoughts more than the creative, joyful ones.

And here’s another thing: I think many of us–maybe most of us–struggle with those kinds of thoughts. It’s part of the human condition. But I heard a quote the other day –and you know how I love my quotes– that smacked me upside the head.

“You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair.”   

~ Martin Luther

Hearing those words, I began to imagine a bird building a nest in my hair. But I wouldn’t just sit there, would I? Nope, I’d shoo the birds away, waving my arms, maybe even shouting. And if that didn’t work, I’d move somewhere, far away from the birds.

But when I allow destructive thoughts to build a nest in my mind, what do I do? Why, I just hang out there, watching intently, maybe even handing over more thoughts with which to build a bigger and stronger nest. Instead of actively doing something to shoo the thoughts away!

It was an eye-opening moment for me, y’all, thinking about those birds. And I’ve had a few times, alone with my thoughts these past days, where I’ve had to shoo the birds away. So thank you, Martin Luther (who has lots more fine quotes). And may you, friends, find a way to shoo those negative thoughts out of your mind and build instead a joyful nest that keeps you safe and happy.

And P.S. Almost forgot! Juniorette Hall said I always write a post that’s a plug for my WOW! posts. And I do have a post up over at the Muffin–“The Beauty of a Blog”–but it has nothing to do with birds or thoughts or Martin Luther, so there. Um… it might be helpful to you if you’re an author, so I hope you’ll take a look. (And yes, I know that’s a plug but Juniorette Hall is not the boss of me.)

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Tuesday Tip: A Pinterest Primer

ImageI’m just going to start by saying I didn’t think I was the Pinterest type. You know–the artsy-craftsy, look-what-I-can-do-with-duct-tape-and-shiitake-mushrooms type.

To be honest, I wouldn’t know a shiitake from a Shia Labeouf. But I will, on occasion, do something craftsy. Not fancy craftsy, mind you. I like my crafts the way I like cooking: if it takes more than fifteen minutes, I’m probably going to pass.

But Pinterest is not just about crafts and recipes. I mean, there’s an awful lot of crafts and recipes there, but you’ll find other stuff that may inspire you in other ways. And for a writer, inspiration can be a very good thing.

So here’s a very simple primer for Pinterest from those keen folks at Mashable: Pinterest: A Beginner’s Guide to the Hot New Social Network.

And notice that Pinterest is a social network. It can’t hurt to expand your social networks, if you’re a writer. That’s why I waded into Pinterest.

(It can hurt if you stay in those artsy-craftsy-social waters so long that you forget to write. I’m just sayin’.)

Inspiration for the Picture Book Writer

It’s nearly the end of the month and I’m afraid that I still do not have my picture book manuscript completed for the 12 x 12 in ’12 competition.

But I’d marked Mem Fox’s delightful website and most particularly, her list of 20 Do’s and Don’ts of picture book writing. That list was like a condensed class in picture book writing, and very, very helpful.

But if I’m being really honest, it was stumbling upon Mem reading The Goblin and The Empty Chair that truly inspired me. First, because she so obviously loves reading, and the joy in her voice is absolutely contagious. Secondly, because it’s such a lovely story, and I’m such a sucker for fairy tale stories. And thirdly, and perhaps most importantly, I was suddenly transported.

Just like that, I was a much younger mom, trooping through the library, watching my kidders pick out books, and bringing me their treasures. And there was a Mem Fox book in the bunch, and oh, how we loved her books.

Mem Fox’s books first came out way back when the Junior Halls were very Junior Halls. And the The Goblin and the Empty Chair was published in 2009. So there’s hope for me yet.

Mingling and Moving Forward

So I had a lovely time at Springmingle, the Southern Breeze’s SCBWI conference this past weekend in Atlanta. It’s all over, as they say, but the transcribing of the notes.

Er…I did take notes. When I’m listening to presentations on writing fine dialogue or how to punch up a plot or what makes a thriller, I scribble furiously. But when I’m listening to a speech that’s inspiring and thoughtful and just fills my soul with all those writerly words I need to hear, the notes sort of drift off into a word or two. Oopsies.

So I’m sorry that I can’t share Kirby Larson’s points from her wonderful keynote speech. But I can direct you to her blog where she lists all the books she mentioned (that was lucky, huh?) and you can follow her posts to get a little inspiration and/or information. (By the way, is it only in the South where mac ‘n cheese is a vegetable? I mean, if you go through the cafeteria line, where else are they going to put mac ‘n cheese???)

Anyway, I picked up her latest book, The Friendship Doll, and of course, Cathy-on-a-Stick had to get in the picture with ’em. (I think my pic was a little miffed that the pics on the book were all wearing delightful outfits while Cathy-on-a-stick was a tad under-dressed for the occasion.)

And I did remember the last poem that Kirby read called “God Says Yes to Me” by Kaylin Haught. I love the last lines…

what I’m telling you is
Yes Yes Yes

Yep, I’ll keep going to conferences (and probably forget to take notes). But that’s okay. I’m listening and learning,  writing and growing. And someday, I’ll get my Yes.

Finding Inspiration (For Whatever Kind of Writer You Are)

As today is the first day of PiBoIdMo (Picture Book Idea Month) and NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), I considered it extra-serendipitous that wonderful writer and wonderful friend, Kara Bietz, sent along a guest post for Finders & Keepers. Though I’m not officially signed up for NaNoWriMo this year, I have a MG novel to finish by the end of the month. And 30 PB ideas to think up. So thank you very much, Kara (and Sesame Street).  I’m off to write, write a book!

So here’s the thing…I thought I knew exactly what I was going to talk about. When Cathy asked me to write a guest post for her blog I immediately thought “HEY! I know what I can talk about! I can talk about revision! And taking your time! And how to dive into a revision without losing your mind!”

And then, just like with any good story…something happened. (Duhn duhn duuuuhhhnnn…)

That something was the Highlights Foundation Whole Novel Workshop. I was able to attend this weeklong workshop in mid-October in the forest-y mountains of Pennsylvania and those seven days absolutely Changed. My. Life. The people I spent time with and the things I learned there have changed my entire outlook on writing, my (yet to be fully travelled) road to publication, my entire approach to My Writing Life. And while a lot of it was hugely personal, I would like to share some of the basic things I came to understand that I think every writer should hear. 

Now I’m not going to get all philosophical on you here, nor am I going to give you a blow by blow account of my entire week, but there are several points that I think a lot of writers, whether you are writing for children or not, can benefit from. And since I know writers like advice to be wrapped up in a pretty package, I have made a list. Yay for lists!

1.      Get out of your own way. This is huge. If you are born to do this (and if you are born to do this, you just know…you just do. No one can tell you if you are born to do this or not. You just have to know in your gut), than sit down and do it. Don’t get caught up in industry talk, the state of the publishing world, ebooks taking over the universe, any of it. You should run especially far away from self-doubt. Sit down. Breathe deeply. And Write. Your. Ass. Off. To steal a line from one of the best songs ever written (thank you, Sesame Street)…”Don’t worry that it’s not good enough for anyone else to hear, just sing (write), sing a song (write a story).”

2.      Make your pile as big as you can. By “pile” I mean a first draft. A first draft is a place to write down every idea that comes into your pretty little head. Do not edit. Do not revise. Do not go backwards. To repeat…Sit down. Breathe Deeply. And Write. Your. Ass. Off. Those first drafts? They can suck. Really. They will suck. Judy Blume? Laurie Halse Anderson? Oh yeah, they write sucky first drafts, too. I promise. The more ideas you throw at your blank page, the more chance you will have to find something that sticks. Which leads us to…

3.      What is your Core Story? A core story is the one question you will be attempting to answer throughout your entire book. And here’s the kicker…you will NOT KNOW what your core story is until you have completed at least one draft. How about them apples? You may think you know what your core story is as you begin your first draft, but as you write along happily, your core story will change. I promise. Sometimes a core story can be a “Big Idea” such as love, understanding relationships, a personal journey. Other times, the core story is much simpler, like finding the lost gemstone, or winning the big game. Before your begin a revision, have a clear idea of what your core story is and write it in big letters somewhere that you will see it often!

4.      Revise, revise, revise. And then revise again. Revision is kind of a neverending process. It’s okay. Again: Sit down. Breathe deeply. And Revise. Your. Ass. Off. Keep that core story in the front of your…er…frontal lobe. Don’t lose that big main idea. Read every sentence, every word of your manuscript and ask yourself, “What does this have to do with my core story?” If that sentence, that word, does not fit…get rid of it. Even if it is the most beautiful sentence you’ve ever crafted, if it doesn’t fit the core story, get rid of it. Have a little funeral, say some kind words, and cut it the heck out of there. If it doesn’t belong, it goes. You can’t fall in love with your words, otherwise you will never be able to revise or edit. By the same token, go through your manuscript and ask yourself what each character contributes to the core story. If two characters are doing the job that just one character can manage, get rid of one of them.

Tada! Four steps. That’s it. So easy, right? I know, I know, it’s not easy at all. But it will be worth the effort in the end. And if you’ve read this far and you’re still wondering if you were born to do this? If you wake up every day thinking about your characters, and go to sleep every night with those same characters dancing in your head, you were born to do this. If you drive by a house and immediately make up stories about the people that may live inside , you were born to do this.  If writing is like breathing, you were born to do this.        

Kara Bietz writes stories for young adults. She was the runner-up for the 2010 SCBWI Work-In-Progress grant, as well as a 2008 and 2011 winner of the SCBWI Southern Breeze Annual Writing Contest for Novel Length Fiction. She was a quarter-finalist in the 2011 Amazon Breakthrough Novel Contest. She lives in Cumming, Georgia with her husband, two kids and two dogs and for her, writing is totally like breathing.